Relationship is what relationship does
Parenting. What does that mean?
It’s beyond the basic suvival definition, as in changing, feeding, housing, keeping alive.
It’s the keeping of the soul.
And it’s no different than any other relationship you have.
We make it complicated but I really have come to understand that ALL relationships can be peaceful and effortless.
When we detach from an outcome, when we detach from needing someone to behave in a way that makes us feel good, all the relationship puzzle pieces fall into place.
We read quite a bit these days about how we be, do and have anything we want. I believe that, however the starting place can only be from within. How you react is what sets the tone for the relationship for you, not how the other person behaves.
Think about it. I’ll bet a same or similar situation can affect you differently, depending on how you feel in that moment. One day it might make you feel powerless or angry, another day you don’t even notice it.
When you learn to let go, miracles happen.